The Mirror Test Part 2: The Accountability Mirror

If you haven’t read Part 1 of The Mirror Test, pause right here and do the needful. Seriously. Understanding the foundation of self-reflection and self-awareness is non-negotiable before you can unlock the real power of accountability.

Now, for those who’ve done their homework, let’s dive into something personal, something that’s been a game-changer for me. I call it The Accountability Mirror.

This is not just a theory or a concept I read somewhere; it’s a practice I’ve embraced to keep myself in check and consistently move closer to my goals. It’s simple, powerful, and brutally honest. The mirror doesn’t lie, and when you learn to face it every day, it’ll change how you approach everything in your life.

What is the Accountability Mirror?

It’s exactly what it sounds like: a literal mirror you use to hold yourself accountable. Think of it as your personal feedback system, a daily check-in with your goals, your progress, and most importantly, yourself.

Here’s how I’ve used it to stay focused and productive:

Step 1: Choose Your Mirror

Pick a mirror you use often, your bathroom mirror, a dressing mirror, or even a pocket mirror if that works for you. For me, it’s the one I see first thing in the morning. That way, accountability starts my day.

Step 2: Write Down Your Goals

This is where it gets real. On sticky notes or small pieces of paper, write down your short-term and long-term goals. Be specific. Don’t just write, “Be better”—define what better means to you. For example:

“Save N100,000 by the end of the quarter.”

“Launch my project by April 30th.”

“Work out three times a week.”

Step 3: Stick Them Where You’ll See Them

Place your notes on the mirror, right where you’ll see them every day. They’re commitments. Every time you look in that mirror, you’re forced to confront your progress, or lack thereof.

Step 4: Reflect Honestly

This is the core of the practice. Each day, as you look into your Accountability Mirror, ask yourself:

Am I following through on my goals?

What’s holding me back?

What’s one thing I can do today to move forward?

The mirror is there to reflect the truth—blemishes, strengths, flaws, and all.

Step 5: Adjust and Evolve

Accountability is not static. As you achieve your goals, replace them with new ones. If something isn’t working, tweak it. The mirror evolves as you do.

Step 6: Don’t Just Reflect, Take Action

Reflection is pointless without action. Your Accountability Mirror should push you to do more than just think about your goals, it should motivate you to act on them.

Why This Works

This practice has helped me build consistency, sharpen my focus, and silence the excuses. The daily habit of looking yourself in the eye and evaluating your progress is humbling, but it’s also empowering.

So, here’s my challenge to you. Set up your Accountability Mirror today. Write those goals, stick them up, and start reflecting. The results won’t come overnight, but trust me, they will come.

And if you commit to it, by the end of the year, you won’t just see progress, you’ll see a version of yourself you’ll be proud of.

The mirror doesn’t lie. And when you learn to face it, neither will you.